Boyfriends aren't necessary. I have had experience in this category and I have learned a lesson or two in my fifteen years of life.
lesson #1- Boys are stupid
lesson #2-They aren't needed to make you happy
lesson #3- They will most likely blow you over in the end
lesson #4- You should really get to know them before dating them
During a relationship, a boyfriend will say or do something wrong and be all mad when you don't except their apology right away. They don't understand girls at all really. At least in my opinion.
You can be happy even without a boyfriend. After a breakup, you think it's the end of all time but it's not. You think that he's the one and no one else will be good enough or compare to the way he did. But that's where your wrong again. Without a boyfriend you have more time for yourself and you don't have to worry that he's with another girl or if girls are flirting with him as he walks by.
Even if you think the relationship will last forever the truth is it probably won't. No matter how well the relationship is going something is probably going on that you don't know about. Whether it's him thinking about another girl and how hot she is or him cheating/lying to you. Because in every relationship there is at least one lie going on no matter how small it is. I just think it's a total waste of time trying to figure them out.
You think you know someone but you really don't. You think their oh so sweet and nice. That they'll never cheat on you or treat you wrong. It's much more to know someone for awhile and realize you can take them even with their flaws. When you date someone you haven't known for that long you don't know their flaws as well as you thought you did. Things just seem to magically pop up when you don't know them.
Either way you don't need a man to survive and just because i posted this doesn't mean I'm not still looking for that person who I think is just right for me. At least for now. I'm only fifteen for heaven sakes. (smiley.)
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