Do You Really Need Them?

Boyfriends aren't necessary. I have had experience in this category and I have learned a lesson or two in my fifteen years of life.
  
    lesson #1- Boys are stupid
    lesson #2-They aren't needed to make you happy
    lesson #3- They will most likely blow you over in the end
    lesson #4- You should really get to know them before dating them


      During a relationship, a boyfriend will say or do something wrong and be all mad when you don't except their apology right away. They don't understand girls at all really. At least in my opinion.
      You can be happy even without a boyfriend. After a breakup, you think it's the end of all time but it's not. You think that he's the one and no one else will be good enough or compare to the way he did. But that's where your wrong again. Without a boyfriend you have more time for yourself and you don't have to worry that he's with another girl or if girls are flirting with him as he walks by.
       Even if you think the relationship will last forever the truth is it probably won't. No matter how well the relationship is going something is probably going on that you don't know about. Whether it's him thinking about another girl and how hot she is or him cheating/lying to you. Because in every relationship there is at least one lie going on no matter how small it is.  I just think it's a total waste of time trying to figure them out.
       You think you know someone but you really don't. You think their oh so sweet and nice. That they'll never cheat on you or treat you wrong. It's much more to know someone for awhile and realize you can take them even with their flaws. When you date someone you haven't known for that long you don't know their flaws as well as you thought you did. Things just seem to magically pop up when you don't know them.
       Either way you don't need a man to survive and just because i posted this doesn't mean I'm not still looking for that person who I think is just right for me. At least for now. I'm only fifteen for heaven sakes. (smiley.)
     

Sharing These Memories

Sharing memories with someone is one of the greatest things about having a best friend. I can remember three years ago falling on the floor laughing so hard because we were hipper on cookies and loads of other treats. (It was Christmas time by the way). People kept telling us to be quiet but it never happened no matter what people said. I can remember always sitting next to each other in all our classes and talking the entire time even though the teacher had told us to stop. We were the ones most likely to be moved away from each other before any of the other talkers. I can remember walking around town making fun of old geezers and pushing the button so the green light on the street would constantly stay red so nobody could go on with there driving. I remember walking through the hallways saying I love you best friend and calling each other silly nicknames like Black-a-Naka and Blodee-Sundae. Weird I know. But its ok whatever you think. Ha-ha its what best friends do together and dang were proud of it. Well anyways we have been best friends for like ever and we wouldn't want it any other way. I can promise you that. The main reason I made this post is because I am leaving Franklinville High School and am leaving my bestest friend and it makes e sad. I feel that it is the wrong decision to make but it may lead me in a different direction that i have not considered before. I don't want to leave her but I am forced to. My mother thinks it will be better for me and that maybe we will get along better if I don't go to the same school that she teaches at. So hopefully she is right and it wont be as disappointing as i expect it to be. And hopefully it wont be the last time I see my best friend. By the way her name is Tyona. so hopefully i can keep up withmy blog and let you know how things are going in the new school!

A Look Into The Future

Right now I am in a regular high school with regular people. I have been looking into colleges that I might be interested in but not sure yet. The college so far that has really caught my eye is the Onondada Community College down in Syracuse. I am mainly intersted in going for Criminal Justice. I have always had a passion for animals and have always wanted to put away people for doing bad things. Even though I have to admit I've dont some bad things too. In twenty years i hope to be working in the Criminal Justice field resuing animals that have been neglected and abused. I would also like to see myself with maybe a kid and an apartment along with a husband. So in twenty years i hope to be doing very well and not living in a box with a tarp to protect me from the rain because it doesnt sound like to much fun.

What's in a Name

While I was setting up a blog I had to think of a name which was a lot harder than I thought it would be.  There I go thinking again.  I had Thoughts Fray, Flippin' Page, The long and the Short of it, Open Gates, Hunting for the Good Life, and Strings Attached.  Each of them meant a little something but all in all they just didnt work.
         Flippin' Page was so that I could do a little bit of calm writing and a little bit of angry writing. when I was angry I could be flippen pages fast and when I was calm I could be calmly flippin' pages and lookin at stuff.  It also had the meaning of surfing pages on the web.
         Open Pages was so that I could open up some of the stuff I had been keeping inside and letting you in on the creative writing I do.  It was also so that you would be curious in the stuff I was writing because it was an interesting name to use.
         Hunting for the Good Life was to tell you the story of how I got to this whole blogging thing.  It also was to tell you about my past and hopefully future.  Also to write some more short stories.
         Strings Attached was to tell you about my short stories and to write about my friendships, family, past, and how I got to where I am now.
         Here I am with Thoughts Fray. I chose Thoughts Fray because this one fit the best in my opinion. I can write about pretty much anything because thoughts fray and when that happens you get another idea and then another so therefor anything i write would go with it. It also will give me a chance to post some of my short stories as well. Besides, it was the only one available. :)